So by jesus/god putting conditions that you have to be born again and love him in a certain way is not love based upon trust and respect but on conditions that you have to follow.
How about all those "narcissists" that won't agree to an open marriage? Are they demanding that their spouses love them in a certain way?
if you disagree....you will suffer the consequences
So what? Same with a marriage. That is why it is good to know the rules before you enter into the marriage contract.
Since Calvary, it looks like God only has one rule that would separate us from him - believing God. Since he made everything, the consequences of not believing God is for him to reluctantly grant the wish to be free of him and everything he made.
Since people will be concious forever somewhere, it seems like an really bad idea not to believe God and experience an eternity of conscoiusness in nothingness, alone, abandoned, with only yourself to accomany you.
That seems pretty dumb.
God has set the bar so low - belief; that it seems like he is basically saying you can enjoy all of him and his creation if you just don't call him a liar, tyrant, etc. In other words, just don't act like a jackass towards him and he'll take care of your future.I personally find that offer rather acceptable.